THE SILENT KILLER

IT COULD BE YOUR MOM, SISTER, BEST FRIEND. NOW A DAYS IT COULD EVEN BE A MALE. MENTAL ABUSE STARTS OUT LIKE THE PERSON IS SOOOOOOOOO CONCERNED ABOUT YOUR WELFARE AND WELL BEING. IT HAS A FACE OF CARING AND ALWAYS KEEPING A CHECK ON YOU. HOWEVER, THE CONCERN TURNS INTO ACCUSATIONS OR PAST PROBLEMS. THE WELL BEING TURNS INTO ISOLATION FROM FAMILY AND FRIENDS. WE WANT TO BE ALONE ALL THE TIME. THE DECISIONS ARE MADE ONLY THEY ARE ALWAYS IN THE OTHER PERSON'S FAVOR. YOU HERE LITTLE REMARKS LIKE YOU BETTER DO THIS AND IT IS NO LONGER CUTE. EVERY ONCE AND A WHILE YOU ARE CALLED OUTSIDE OF YOUR NAME. AND YOU OVERLOOK IT BECAUSE THE OTHER PERSON SAYS THEY ARE SORRY. AND OF COURSE YOU FORGIVE. YOU WOULD NEVER EXPECT THIS TO BE AN ABUSER BECAUSE THERE ARE NO VISIBLE SCARS. UNTILL ONE DAY IT DAWNS ON YOU. WHERE ARE MY FRIENDS? HOW COME EVERY TIME I GO SOMEWHERE I GET CALLED 5,10,15 TIMES AND TOLD I'M JUST CHECKING WHERE YOU ARE.................HUMMMMMMMMMMM. YOU FIND YOURSELF ALWAYS ON TIME BECAUSE IF YOU STOP SOMEWHERE OR EVEN TAKE A DIFFERENT ROUTE HOME YOU ARE QUESTIONED ON WHERE HAVE YOU BEEN.

YES. MENTAL ABUSE IS A SILENT KILLER.

ONE KNOW ONE NOTICES NOT EVEN THE PERSON IT IS BEING DONE TOO. UNTILL YOU ARE OSTERNIZED FROM FAMILY AND FRIENDS. NEVER ENCOURAGED TO GO ANYWHERE UNLESS GIVEN PERMISSION OR THE OTHER PERSON PROMISES TO GO WITH YOU AND AT THE LAST MINTUE ALWAYS CHANGES THEIR MIND.

YOU START TO QUESTION YOURSELF AND YOUR OWN POTENTIAL. YOU HAVE BECOME DEPENDED ON THE PERSON OR THE PERSON HAS BECOME DEPENDED ON YOU.

THERE IS A DIFFERENCE IN DEPENDENCY AND CO-DEPENDENCY.

MENTAL ABUSE THE SILENT KILLER.

HOW CAN IT KILL IT KILL YOU ASK WELL YOU SPIRIT BECOMES CRUSHED. YOU FIND THAT YOU BECOME USE TO BE MONITORED. WHEN IT IS ACTUALLY STALKING AND IT IS WITHIN YOUR OWN RELATIONSHIP.

THE MENTAL ABUSER IS THE MANIPULATOR AND CONTROLLER. AND IT IS SO SUTTLE THE ABUSEE DOESNOT EVEN NOTICE IT.

MENTAL ABUSE THE SILENT KILLER

SCARS OF THE ESTEEM, MIND, A DANGEROUS PLACE FOR ANYONE TO BE IN BONDAGED TO.

DOES ANY OF THIS SOUND FAMILAR?

ARE YOU A VICTUM OF THIS SILENT KILLER.

WHAT CAN YOU DO?

1. YOU COME OUT OF DENIAL.
2. YOU TELL SOMEONE.
3. YOU COME UP WITH A STATAGEY OF ONCE AGAIN FINDING YOUR FREEDOM.
4. YOU MAY HAVE TO LEAVE IN ORDER TO REGAIN YOUR SELF-IDENTITY.
5. START REGAINING RELATIONSHIPS YOU ONCE SERVERED..................THOSE YOU HAVE CUT OFF WERE REALLY WAITING FOR YOU TO GET A WAKE UP CALL.
6. FIND SUPPORT IT WAS THERE ALL ALONG.